August Visitor: The Ex  

Monday, 15 December 2008

Q: What other way can you spend the week after thanksgiving ?
A: Go to Aruba with your man.........

Thats what i did..... three days of sun, beach, sex and food....... have i mentioned sex and food? gosh, im such a foodie. It was an unexpected vacation. I planned to take a week off work after thanksgiving to move apartments (now i live further from the boyfriend), have a spa weekend and just hang with myself cuz Christmas period is the busiest at work, with parties and alot of events. It drives me crazy! Anyway boyfriend asks me if i could spare 3 days out of my one week and i reluctantly gave in, honestly i wanted it all to myself. I even told him he shouldnt call me during that week...lol
He showed up at mine with the tickets and could i resist? heck no...... i thought of the sun and heat......... divine! Thank goodness i'd been working hard at the gym so my body was bikini ready. We were to leave the next day and trust me, it took me 5 mins to pack...lol..ok i exaggerate, i think it was like half an hr. I had a lot of fun...... enough said

Guess who's in town? Boyfriend's ex! I have never met her, she stays in Connecticut and she's here for work meetings and decided to meet me....... When the man told me that babe, remember my ex i talked to u about, she's in town and she said she wants to have dinner with u, one on one! I didnt even know what to say, all that came out was sure, i'd make reservations. what food does she like. I had no clue what we were going to say to each other. If the ex was going to be there, it'd have been better. I have never met her or talked to her...... hence my worry!
We met friday night for the dinner. I had seen pictures so i knew it was her from afar. She looked good in her skinny jeans and blazer. I wore a dress cuz i was meeting friends for drinks later. It was awkward at first, how were we supposed to say hello. was i to hug or kiss her cheeks? we settled for a stiff handshake. We placed our orders and the conv started, no wait, the grilling and the sermon. She went ahead to say she was still in love with my boyfriend and came here to see if i was serious with him or we were just passing time. imagine the nerves! wait, shes also Nigerian so u can imagine my shock! She talked all through the meal about how she made the mistake of letting him go, and so on........... Mschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

All i said was, i was sorry they ended things but clearly hes over you now cuz as a matter of fact, we just got back from Aruba last night and he talked of our future together. I was filled with rage and resisted the urge to throw my glass of wine over her skanky ass...... i thought of BG at that moment and i knew my home gurl would have said more than i did! As soon as i finished my food (hey i was paying), i dropped my card to pay and can u believe what she said, oh, ur now flaunting like u can buy me dinner, hell bitch i can! still dont know how i kept my cool, grabbed my coat and walked out of the restaurant.
BF was so lucky i had a girls night out so i had drowned my anger in Cocktails and champagne...... She's been ringing his phone for 2 days straight now, i wonder what she wants. Someone needs to beat the bitch up men.

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17 comments: to “ August Visitor: The Ex

  • Dorah
    15 December 2008 at 20:40  

    That girl is a hot mess. She's so wack and hella disrespectful. Bitches have no shame thesedays.
    ANYHOO,
    Glad you had a great time with the bf! It's always great to get away for a little bit.

    PS
    Is Bondgirl Nigerian too? Just wondering.

    Great blog and keep up the good work!

  • Bondgirl
    15 December 2008 at 21:38  

    Sweetie when you skyped me this morning and told me to watch for the blog I understand why you didnt tell me on skype now....WTF is up with these cockroaches climbing out for Christmas. Have you seen the lengths and flames I am experiencing with Teni two faced cow here? Anyway let me not rant you know my advice is get rid of her quickly before she starts causing issues in your relationship! Control the fire before it spreads!

    @ Dorah....sorry babe not Nigerian I come from the SADC region..LOL

  • Danny Bagucci
    15 December 2008 at 22:30  

    wow...black must be the bomb for all the chicks to be lining up to take him off you...Never mind, we are all behind you... what nerve the silly girl had, to come to town and actually insist on meeting you, only to attempt to give you a serious sermon.. If it were back in the day when i had access to some contacts in the italian mafia, i'd have arranged a hit.. so quickly. silly girl... don't allow her stress u jare... just ensure you and black are all cool and kosher always. all the pretenders to his heart can very well go to hell, will ship them there earlier if i had the means!!!!

  • Dorah
    15 December 2008 at 23:16  

    Thanks for getting back to me so quickly, Bondgirl.

    I'm rooting for you and Black. Good luck and all the best!

  • Bondgirl
    15 December 2008 at 23:41  

    @ Danny...this one isnt about me Danny!! These are city girl's issues coming out! LOL...easy to get confused though...these snitches are everywhere!

  • Danny Bagucci
    15 December 2008 at 23:43  

    yeah.. had me all confused for a mo there.... should have taken time to re-read the history before commenting..lol....

  • pink m
    16 December 2008 at 06:00  

    Heh! The gall people have!! You would thing the world has run out of men. Why on earth would anyone ask you out to dinner to insult you?

    She let the man go,he's now yours, she should live with it.

  • ~Sirius~
    16 December 2008 at 06:03  

    Jeeze! and here I thought my Soap Opera life was the "ish"

    MSCHEWWWWWWW!!!! @ Ex, WtH?????

    I hope she's out of the way for good!

  • ShonaVixen
    16 December 2008 at 11:16  

    lOL @ Bondgirl...SADC region..lol...ekse you made me smile!!
    Ok bck to CG -WTH!!!WTF!!!!This ex has got a hella load of damn nerves...What the FCUK?!?OK, so she wanted to tell u want exactly??That she's on a mission to take ur man?Errr dont she know there's an no refund policy or exchange policy??I'm still in a WTF mode...
    Gurl i applaud u for not chucking wine in her face and slapping the bitchiness outta her mouth....us in the SADC region would say voertsek to her!!!!

  • bumight
    16 December 2008 at 12:23  

    ok, i dont know why i havent been on u guys' blog yet, found u a couple of days ago and read all of BG's posts!

    you really are FAR too kind! I would never have gone out to dinner with her, and as soon as she started mouthing off, that woulda been my cue to leave. the nerve! did she think she was acting a naija movie?

  • Temite
    16 December 2008 at 15:04  

    Oh my gosh! Hell naw. Seriously what da fuck is wrong with all thes bitches men! I cannot stand bitches men! Well like Bondy Boo said contain the fire before it burns you!

  • Temite
    16 December 2008 at 15:05  

    IHey bondgurl, its been a while. How are you. I am going to go comment on your last post so go and check it out.

  • Miss Definitely Maybe
    16 December 2008 at 17:35  

    lol you two city girls have some serious drama when it comes to chicks trying to snare your men, that will teach you next time to go for the ugly ass dudes no one else wants lol

  • Tigeress
    17 December 2008 at 11:42  

    oooh....that girl sure has the nerve!!! But at the same time she get respect small- she made you aware of her intensions. Tell ur man u dont want him hanging out with her. U're nice sha- if it were me i would have told her- THERE IS NO NEED and to say whatever she had to say over the phone. Dinner dat what can fa?

    Keep us posted!!! LOL!!!

  • Nefertiti
    18 December 2008 at 01:01  

    What the fack? the nerve of the stewpid binsh. I bet in her facked up mind, she's thinking she's the bigger girl. Oloshi! Please curb the binsh before she has u jumping thru hoops.

  • Buttercup
    29 December 2008 at 05:33  

    arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! what is it with exes???????????

    glad u enjoyed ur holiday!

  • Chari
    31 December 2008 at 01:28  

    NONSENSE!!!

    what is with exes and trying to make stoopid come backs? hello there musta been a reason y'all are exes...or am I the one missing the memo?

 

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