Tuesday, 21 October 2008

I am officially in a committed relationship with New guy...... someone shout Hallelujah!!!!!! Firstly his name has to change. he's no more new guy, he will now be called "Boyfriend"...... lol, i cant believe im in a relationship. Remember my last post, i was going to tell him that day that i could not date him and all....... He invited me to dinner that night at some new restaurant down his street. Trust me, i wore a very sexy sage dress and i knew i looked good. Anyway, half way through dinner, he started with the i love u speech and he wants to know what i want from us cuz ive been avoiding the subject (ha! how did he notice??? i was acting well!) Blogvile friends, guess what urs truly said? "i have been meaning to talk to u too and i think i'd love to be your girlfriend exclusively" Boyfriend was very excited and i could see he really liked me. Oh well, ive always wanted to date someone who loved me more than i loved him. Its been going so well. The past 2 weeks have been great. he's been acting like the perfect boyfriend. I made him have a heart to heart conv with my mum and he didnt freak out. Even my brother who always hates the guys he sees me with likes him. Thank you for all ur comments, it helped my decision greatly, I love you guys here!

Speaking of which, remember the Andrea the anorexic colleague of mine? I talked to her and i think she listened cuz she's gradually picking up a healthy eating habit and she told me she's started seeing her doctor again. We've been hanging out together and she lives in boyfriend's apartment building so we sometimes all have dinner. She's a beautiful and smart girl and im thinking of hooking her with my brother cuz its been a while since i saw him with a girl o.

Work's going great, hectic but fun. My love life is so nice and i can say im gradually falling in love. Im just really scared cuz i dont want to be heartbroken again. Any advice on making this really work? what should i do, what should i avoid? I try to give him space, let him hang with his mates and not call or text everyday............ whats ur take?

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10 comments: to “

  • Temite
    21 October 2008 at 20:48  

    Ummm City Gurl, I salute your good decision and I think you are doing the right thing by taking it slow. Dont force anything you dont feel and be kind to him. that is the only advice worth while. Kindness! Be kind to him and stay as long as hes kind to you! Ummm SEX! SEX! SEX! SEX and Kindness are the two neccessary component of a great relationship.

  • ShonaVixen
    22 October 2008 at 04:39  

    Gurl now this deserves a toast...aww snap me aint drinking no more but still well done to you girly!!M so happy for you..phew you didnt dump him instead you committed!! Well, of course I'd agree wiv Temite to say 'SEX, SEX,SEX' is important, u know get ur good good on!! Communication is key which means you talk and u also listen! Respect each other too and hey dont forget to spice up that SEX..lol!! So to you i say..happy sexing and love always girly...xoxo

  • Bondgirl
    22 October 2008 at 10:06  

    Doing the happy dance for you two... after that marathon talk session last week I am glad something came of it!

  • Just...Toluwa
    22 October 2008 at 11:07  

    happy for u...

    lol @ temite and shonavixen, sex is good, very good!

    just take one day at a time. Be good to him, be firm...but most of all, have fun!

    Good luck!

  • Just...Toluwa
    22 October 2008 at 11:07  

    oh yeah, by firm, i mean honest..straight up honest...lol!

  • Rita
    23 October 2008 at 08:59  

    Congrats...any bottle of champagne that we can pop?

    My thots on how to make the relationship really work...
    1. Be yourself...love all you can love
    2. Forget whatever happened in the past...New Guy..no... boyfriend is different

    All the best...

  • Buttercup
    24 October 2008 at 21:02  

    awwwwww good for u sweetie!!!! :D

    as rita said, be urself..always be willin to compromise..take interest in what he does/likes..respect him but at the same time be assertive when u have to be..oh yes, good sex counts too..um, im sure u'll figure out the rest! good luck!

    glad andrea is seekin help! hookin her with ur bro sounds really sweet!

  • rethots
    28 October 2008 at 17:19  

    ...and thus begins the journey.

  • Princess Jumai
    30 October 2008 at 16:54  

    on making it work just make sure your relationship is between the two of you only.. once you star letting other people then trouble starts..

  • FFF
    31 October 2008 at 06:03  

    my dear, just enjoy d moment & not worry abt if he'd break ur heart. it might happen, it might not happen. so y worry abt it now, & end up wasting valuable time & emotion. love is good, being in a good relationship is wonderful. So, we thank d almighty

 

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