tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post7258470528924885289..comments2023-06-30T08:26:37.242-04:00Comments on The Adventures of Two City Girls: In a Confused state of mindcity girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06902670898070020710noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-1403964094452444362008-11-22T17:22:00.000-05:002008-11-22T17:22:00.000-05:00i don't know what your relationship with your brot...i don't know what your relationship with your brother is like but the best thing to do would be to talk to him..Not in an accusing way or anything, so you should probably prepare yourself before you talk to him.. and whateveer is goign on, no matter how hard it is you should support him.. it might just be a phase hes going throughPrincess Jumaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15510319546431741223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-57730280611869237202008-11-18T20:13:00.000-05:002008-11-18T20:13:00.000-05:00Maybe..he is experimenting with the world. You kno...Maybe..he is experimenting with the world. You know kids do that these days.In any case, you might be suprised at how families get closer because of their differences. Life is weird, but dont despair!!~ScotchBiscuits~https://www.blogger.com/profile/18172488997732295965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-45678176907370010502008-11-14T17:49:00.000-05:002008-11-14T17:49:00.000-05:00All along i thought this was just a story you had ...All along i thought this was just a story you had written, hadnt realised it was actually true.<BR/>As devasting as it is before he is gay/homosexual blah blah blah he is your brother, it doesnt change who he is to you or what you mean to him, dont try to change him, no need to understand him just be there for himMiss Definitely Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-63155034241167046172008-11-14T12:21:00.000-05:002008-11-14T12:21:00.000-05:00OK...that was not the ideal way to find out someth...OK...that was not the ideal way to find out something like this. <BR/><BR/>However the shock will subside...and you will calm down. Then talk to him but please just know that he too will be quite apprehensive in this matter. You are his sister and you love him..show him you care. In the mean time big hug xxxJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06064246506516947635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-69642987611821920242008-11-13T10:46:00.000-05:002008-11-13T10:46:00.000-05:00Yes, Dearheart You should talk to him but only aft...Yes, Dearheart <BR/>You should talk to him but only after you've prayed. He's your brother, gay or not he is always your flesh and blood first. <BR/><BR/>Tell him what you and Boyfriend saw, and then talk with him. He's gonna deny as much as he can, cause he didn't tell you cause he knows how everyone would and is reacting but get stuff out on the table.<BR/><BR/>You love him and that's the most important thing. It ain't gonna be easy for anyone but remember Gay or not you love him and he loves you.<BR/>Mista Jayceeachoiceofweaponshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14742415077326783252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-23721136261018414822008-11-11T07:40:00.000-05:002008-11-11T07:40:00.000-05:00It's a decision he has made, and at the point at w...It's a decision he has made, and at the point at which it comes out, he'll need a friend, as I'm sure enough people will be judging and condemning. Be that to him. Be his friend for now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-47124545640221589602008-11-10T20:14:00.000-05:002008-11-10T20:14:00.000-05:00...hopefully it was just a dare...Ok, on the real,......hopefully it was just a dare...<BR/><BR/>Ok, on the real, they've all given the best advice..calm down n talk to him..he just might open up to u..its probably still early days for andrea n him so it shudnt be hard for her to come to terms with it, if its true(God forbid..)..n IF its true, u shudnt tell ur mum, hes in the best position to do that..Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-33195411475221660562008-11-10T03:39:00.000-05:002008-11-10T03:39:00.000-05:00.....Oh my goodness........slow down, take deep br........Oh my goodness........slow down, take deep breaths and.......what the H***! where does one start from?~Sirius~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14771610618431377950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-19776706931992189632008-11-07T15:43:00.000-05:002008-11-07T15:43:00.000-05:00i agree with all those that said calm down first.....i agree with all those that said calm down first...and then talk to him, hard it is to even think about BUT he is your brother at the end of the day, he's his own person and as much as it might be hard to accept and we mightnt want a gay brother, sometimes the reality of it is totally different. It could be a phase, he could be bi-sexual but you wont know without talking to him, dont attack him, just be his sister and friend!It wont be easy, but all i say is probably him staying in the closet is also hard for him too...all in all just be there for him!!ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-37855764693445821802008-11-07T12:24:00.000-05:002008-11-07T12:24:00.000-05:00So there I go reading this like it's some kind of ...So there I go reading this like it's some kind of soap. I didn't realise it might be true until I read bong girl's comment. I hope for everything sake that he was messing with you, if he isn't however, please keep a tight rein on your emotions or your tongue when addressing him. I know it's hard right now- cry, shout, punch something if you must, but be kind and understanding, however hard that maybe. Let him know how you feel about it, but let him know that you love him, no matter what his decisions are- better yet, show him that you love him still.<BR/><BR/>I'm praying for you.Nefertitihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01272653815975890429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-1277931697451973332008-11-07T12:19:00.000-05:002008-11-07T12:19:00.000-05:00My sister has made crazy decisions that I do not s...My sister has made crazy decisions that I do not support and my parents esp. my dad are still upset with her till date..shes not a lesbian but I can relate..all in all, he is your brother and you should be his friend.. Even though anything comes out shocking...or ur parents turn away from him, be the one to stand by him. xLovePaprikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04610471514678282899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-83042010626387117262008-11-07T12:02:00.000-05:002008-11-07T12:02:00.000-05:00Ouch...wldnt want a gay bro either! Speak to him, ...Ouch...wldnt want a gay bro either! Speak to him, calmy tho! <BR/><BR/>Wldnt wanna be in ur shoes ryt now...cos i wldnt know what to say!Toluwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06710406261682638968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-59020207437176107742008-11-07T11:02:00.000-05:002008-11-07T11:02:00.000-05:00OMD, tell me u made this up to get comments. Tell...OMD, tell me u made this up to get comments. Tell me u normally wear glasses and didnt bother that particular nite, tell me its ur bro's look-alike. Tell me it just isnt ur younger bro. Cos if that happened to me and i found out my Bruv. a.k.a. Bob was kissing a next dude- i wld be DEVASTED for life! GUTTED!! CRUSHED!!!! <BR/><BR/>And before all my free minded bloggers jump down my throat- i'm sorry it may be cool for other folks- but not my Bruv. I'm not cool with it. So Bondgirl, if u're totally upset- i understand. But remember blood will always be blood. All becos u don't condole such- doesnt mean u cant continue the bro/sis relationship u guys have. Just let him know how u feel and i'm sure he'd respect you enof not rub that side of him in ur face.<BR/><BR/>Talk to him- only after u calm down tho.Tigeresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17004116586549466667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-82704162922340209232008-11-07T07:07:00.000-05:002008-11-07T07:07:00.000-05:00Babe I am still in shock too. When you called to t...Babe I am still in shock too. When you called to tell me I was just thinking that this crazy life of ours is getting crazier. Speak to baby bro its the only way you will clear things. He is obviously living in fear and hiding it must be really hard. Black is even more shocked but passes his love and prayers. I wish I was there for you in person. miss you xoxoBondgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01288613650848767976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-14828587849829285472008-11-07T04:28:00.000-05:002008-11-07T04:28:00.000-05:00Maybe you should calm down first. Nothing will be ...Maybe you should calm down first. Nothing will be achieved by confronting him in amger he may get defensive.<BR/>Then ask him why he has no girlfriend or why he isn't seeing anyone.<BR/>just take things easy.<BR/>Having a gay brother is better than having no brother at all.<BR/>Good luck.LusciousRonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14448225682004908627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-40901118288254917902008-11-07T03:24:00.000-05:002008-11-07T03:24:00.000-05:00aww... i think you should calm down first then con...aww... i think you should calm down first then confront. wish you all the bestAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5515735750396248658.post-84423435310255332052008-11-07T03:12:00.000-05:002008-11-07T03:12:00.000-05:00Ummm Oh my gosh, dearest, I dont know what to say....Ummm Oh my gosh, dearest, I dont know what to say. I mean your brother has a right to choose who he wants to spend his life with. Maybe he is bisexual....Dont worry too much about Andrea, she is not in love with him (I think) so I dont think she would be devastated at all. If you are comfortable enough to try to set him then you should be comfortable to ask him GENTLY what is going on with him. You are his sister so please be supportive and kind. Imagine if you were going through such a thing how would you like him to respond to it...and errr you dont get to decide what kind of sibling you get so you are going to have to accept it at the end of the day whether or not you like it. Goodluck love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com