The Valentine's weekend
Sunday 15 February 2009
Hey guys, did you have fun yesterday? In the spirit of love, i decided to finally talk to my brother. I invited him for a Valentine's day dinner at my house with my boyfriend, D.J (im realising this is the first time im mentioning his alias) and i told him he could bring a date.
I realized it was time i embraced his coming out, even though i had to find out at a bar, and try to mend things between us. Did i tell u guys i stopped picking up his calls, i refused to see him. He tried to get to me through D.J but i just couldnt handle talking to him.
Anyway, D.J cooked and four of us sat down to dinner. I must say that man can cook! My brother came with his date, and from what he said, they had been dating for 3 weeks. They seemed happy and i guess i'd just have to get used to seeing my lil brother with a man......... gosh!!!!!!!!!!!
Thankfully, dinner went well, i got hair tips from my brother's boyfriend (doesnt even sound right) and a date to go shopping with him. I must say, i have nothing against gays.... i have a close friend here thats gay. Guess its cuz i never saw this coming, hence the shock. We all got along well and im so glad for BG, Black and D.J's support through it all.
After dinner, it was time for D.J and i's proper valentine celebration. I like my baby so much, he got me a tiffany necklace that ive been lusting after, a personalized build a bear hello kitty and yep, no Vals day is complete without a cake for me....... Thankfully, i got him what i can see he appreciated.... 3 different Wii games (what is it with men and their toys!), and an initialized bracelet..... And no, im not telling u what went on at night.
He was romantic all weekend and took me for an early breakfast today. He kept telling me how much he loved me, but i can bring myself to still say it....... i think im ready to say it back.... how do i say it back? im glad he's been understanding so far.... though the moving in issue is still hanging in the air
Have a great week guys and as BG said, something huge is in the air..... so wait for it
15 February 2009 at 19:39
Wow.... Quite some V-day extending into a V-weekend at yours.. Now with the way this BG's "Big announcement" is being hyped, we might need to get CNN lined up for a breaking news special when it finally arrives....lol...
Guess lil' bro has to grow up at some stage and if that's the path he's chosen to tread, so be it.. You cannot forever see him as your lil' bro....
15 February 2009 at 19:48
Oooooh you guys had a good weekend! CG are you sure you don't want to give details?? I'm glad you are mending fences with your bro (didn't know he was gay).
As for this big news...I need to look out for BG or Black in the city this week to see if I can get a heads up because I am so NOT a patient person!
By the way girls did you know there is a Bondgirl #2 with a blog out there I thought it was BG but it aint!
15 February 2009 at 22:09
Hey girl!!!Glad you and lil bro are on talking terms and you're getting used to it all...he is your lil brother after all!!
Hmmm Tiffany's, Hello Kitty...m getting green wiv envy over here and green is so my colour right now..lol!
Kooks, lemme know the Big news before any1 else if you get to find out!!Good girl!!
15 February 2009 at 22:19
funny thing is when i first found u guys' blog, i read all of BG's posts, im yet to go through yours from the beginning cos i feel like i started watching a show midseason ;)
ur vals day sounds like fun! im jotting down ideas ;)
it might be hard coming to terms with ur brother's decision but i guess u just have to respect his decision and keep praying for him.
16 February 2009 at 03:41
u definitely had fun.
16 February 2009 at 05:15
Awww.That's real Love you showed to your brother, Really proud of you.
Hey CG, all this hype of big news!!!! can you guys just tell us before people like me die of curiosity....LOL!
Aaah talk about men and their toys....the Mister literally had an orgasm because he got his most wanted game as a gift from me- if you think about it- that's some cheap way out for some of us for a very looooong time....he he, Can't say the same for them though.
Glad you enjoyed your weekend.
16 February 2009 at 09:16
Glad to knw u had fun. Gd thing bout ur brother cuz family is family regardless of sex preference
17 February 2009 at 22:40
i very jealous! tiffany's? i hate valentines day!
Bt hppy for u and ur bro!
18 February 2009 at 20:17
I am glad you are talking with your Brother!
Happy Valentine's Day!
Jaycee
23 February 2009 at 11:35
ahnahn danny, why the hell r u always 1st on this blog??? mschew!
awwww it must be hard emracing the idea..i hope it only gets better..
necklace from tiffany's, huh? lucky u!
im gonna guess this big news is BG n Black announcing their engagement!